Sentinel of the Soul (7)

My flesh and my heart fail;
But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.
For indeed, those who are far from You shall perish;
You have destroyed all those who desert You for harlotry.
But it is good for me to draw near to God;
I have put my trust in the Lord God,
That I may declare all Your works. Psalm 73.26-28

Renewing self-control
Self-control is the virtue which enables us to postpone some immediate gratification for a more long-term benefit. It is the role of conscience to rally the mind and the heart for self-control, so that our soul may be entirely and perfectly inclined to obey and follow the Lord in every situation.

In the case of temptation, self-control works to help us recognize and resist temptation, so that we grow through it unto greater maturity in the Lord, rather than fall through it into rebellion and sin. By practicing self-control, we decline the short-term enjoyment of sin to preserve and enrich the long-term delight of living in the favor of the Lord. Self-control is one of the fruits of the Spirit which He works in all those who love the Lord Jesus sincerely.

Thus it stands to reason that the more we love Jesus, and delight in Him, the stronger will be our conscience, functioning as the sentinel of the soul, to keep us from breaking away from Him when temptation comes.

Loving Jesus is the way to renew and strengthen the virtue of self-control – and all the other virtues and disciplines as well.

Finding the way of escape
Asaph found the way of escape by remembering that we never sin alone, and that sin is a slippery slope, and by fleeing to the Lord in prayer and meditation. At the end of his psalm, the sin of covetousness avoided, he rests in his relationship with the Lord and is renewed and strengthened for whatever he may have to confront next.

As Asaph made his way along the way of escape, he refocused on the Lord, and his soul was filled with the delight of contemplating His God and resting in Him. Thus more firmly ensconced in the Lord than ever, he was strengthened in soul and body to continue in Him for His Kingdom and glory.

David had written that, in the presence of the Lord are fullness of joy and pleasures forever more (Ps. 16.11). He also declared that if we delight in the Lord, the Lord will give us the desires of our heart (Ps. 37.4), which, if we delight in Him, will only be more of Him.

Sin may be appealing, as it winks and beckons at us from the other side of temptation. But, as we have seen, sin separates us from the Lord, thus robbing us of the joy and pleasure we can know as we delight in Him. If, when temptation comes, we focus on the short-term pleasures of sin, we will lose sight of, and then contact with, the eternal and glorious pleasures that can be known in the presence of the Lord.

But if, as temptations arise, we turn our minds to the Lord and contemplate His beauty and goodness, our delight in Him will light the way of escape through temptation to a deeper relationship with the Lord.

Knowing the Lord
It’s clear that Asaph enjoyed a deeply personal experience of the Lord. He talked about the Lord as holding his hand, guiding him with counsel, being present with him on earth, the strength of his heart, and the portion of his daily life. Asaph delighted in being near to the Lord and taking refuge in Him. It’s clear that Asaph’s faith was more than just a kind of intellectual assent. Asaph knew the Lord, and knowing Him, he delighted in God – he would not allow some short-term enticement to create any interruption in his fellowship with God.

Is this the way you would describe your own relationship with Jesus Christ? Do you merely believe in Jesus, or do you truly know and delight in Him? Do you enter His presence, immerse in His glory, fill up with His Spirit, and soak in His Word? Knowing the Lord and delighting in Him are the privilege of all who name the Name of Jesus as Savior and King. That so few who profess to believe in Jesus actually know and delight in Him is surely one of the greatest scandals of the contemporary Church.

Knowing and delighting in the Lord is where self-control is forged and strengthened – in the presence of the Lord, relishing His beauty, drinking in His goodness, resting in His presence and power, contemplating His good and perfect will, singing with joy in your soul with departed saints and angels. They who will not nurture this kind of relationship with the Lord are certain to be vulnerable to every temptation that crosses their paths. Unless we discipline our minds to focus on, our hearts to delight in, and our consciences above all to prefer the greater and eternal good of the presence and pleasure of the Lord, we will too easily be drawn aside to the cheap thrills of every passing temptation. If we delight in the Lord, He will give us the desires of our heart – which, because we delight in Him, means He will give us more of Himself.

Purify your conscience with the knowledge of and delight in the Lord. Hone the sentinel of your soul always to point you to the right path when temptations arise. Practice self-control, and you will grow in your relationship with the Lord and your ability to know, enjoy, and glorify Him.

For reflection
1.  What does it mean to delight yourself in the Lord? How should a Christian practice this?

2.  What warning would you offer to someone, to encourage them to fight against falling through temptation into sin?

3.  What counsel would you give a new believer to help learn to recognize and grow through temptation into a greater likeness to Jesus?

Next steps – Conversation: Talk with some Christian friends about what it means to delight in the Lord. How do they practice this? How has delighting in the Lord been helpful to them in resisting temptation? What can you do to encourage one another to spend more time delighting in the Lord?

T. M. Moore

This is part 7 of an 8-part series on Purifying the Conscience. To download this week’s study as a free PDF, click here.

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