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Strength Redefined

Thanks for joining me in our series on "Keeping the Standard." This is Part 4 of an introduction to men who are pursuing godly manhood. In our current cultural climate that often equates masculinity with physical prowess or domineering behavior, it’s crucial to reframe our understanding of true strength through the lens of Scripture. Godly strength isn’t measured by muscle mass or assertiveness, but by the depth of one’s character. As we explore this concept, we’ll discover that real power lies in the cultivation of godly attributes that shape us into men of substance and impact for the Kingdom of God.

 

The Biblical Perspective on Strength

The Bible paints a picture of strength that often contradicts worldly ideals. Paul writes, “For the foolishness of God is wiser than men, and the weakness of God is stronger than men” (1 Corinthians 1:25). This paradoxical statement challenges our assumptions about power and invites us to see strength through God’s eyes. Biblical strength is not about self-reliance or dominance, but about reliance on God and service to others.

In the Psalms, David frequently speaks of God as his strength (Psalm 18:1-2). This reminds us that true strength comes not from our own resources, but from our connection to Almighty God. It’s a strength that empowers us to face giants, whether they be external challenges or internal struggles.

The Bedrock of Godly Character

At the foundation of godly character lies integrity - the quality of being whole and undivided. A man of integrity is the same person in private as he is in public. Job, described as “blameless and upright” (Job 1:1), exemplifies this trait. Even in the face of immense suffering, he maintained his integrity, refusing to curse God or compromise his beliefs.

Developing integrity involves aligning our actions with our professed values. It means keeping our word, even when it costs us. It requires transparency in our dealings and a commitment to truth, even when lies might seem more convenient. As we cultivate integrity, we build a foundation of trustworthiness that impacts every area of our lives.

Strength in the Face of Fear

Courage is not the absence of fear, but the willingness to act rightly in spite of it. Joshua, as he prepared to lead Israel into the Promised Land, was repeatedly exhorted to “be strong and courageous” (Joshua 1:6-9). This courage wasn’t based on his own abilities, but on God’s presence and promises.

For us, courage might mean standing up for truth in a culture of moral relativism, making difficult decisions that align with our values, or facing our own weaknesses and seeking help. It’s about pushing through our comfort zones to do what’s right, even when it’s hard.

The Counterintuitive Strength

Perhaps no character trait is more counterintuitive to worldly notions of strength than humility. Yet Scripture affirms, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble” (James 4:6). Jesus, the epitome of strength, “humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross” (Philippians 2:8).

Humility, according to C.S. Lewis, isn’t thinking less of yourself; it’s thinking of yourself less. It’s the recognition that our strengths are gifts from God, meant to be used in service to others. Cultivating humility involves practicing gratitude, seeking feedback, admitting when we’re wrong, and prioritizing others’ needs above our own desires.

Mastery of the Inner Man

Proverbs 16:32 states, “Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.” This verse highlights self-control as a form of strength superior to physical might. Self-control involves mastering our impulses, emotions, and desires, bringing them under the lordship of Christ. Moreover, self-control is part of Paul’s ninefold fruit of the Spirit in Galatians 5.

Developing self-control is a daily practice. It might mean controlling our tongue when we’re angry, resisting temptation when no one is watching, or disciplining ourselves to maintain spiritual practices even when we don’t feel like it. As we grow in self-control, we become men who can be trusted with greater responsibilities.

Strength for the Long Haul

Godly character isn’t formed overnight; it’s forged through persistent effort and endurance through trials. James writes, “Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness” (James 1:2-3). This steadfastness, or perseverance, is a key attribute of godly character.

Cultivating perseverance involves maintaining hope and faith in the face of setbacks, continuing to do good even when we don’t see immediate results, and committing to lifelong growth rather than quick fixes. It’s about running the marathon of faith with endurance, keeping our eyes fixed on Jesus (Hebrews 12:1-2).

Strength that Heals

True strength isn’t hard or callous; it’s tender and compassionate. Jesus, our model of perfect masculinity, was moved with compassion for the crowds (Matthew 9:36). This compassion wasn’t a fleeting emotion, but a driving force that led to action - teaching, healing, and ultimately sacrificing his life.

For us, cultivating compassion means developing sympathy for others, being willing to enter into their pain, and taking action to alleviate suffering where we can. It might involve mentoring a fatherless child, caring for an elderly neighbor, or simply being a listening ear to a friend in need.

Strength of Mind and Spirit

Proverbs repeatedly extols the value of wisdom, describing it as more precious than jewels (Proverbs 3:15). Godly wisdom goes beyond mere knowledge; it’s the ability to apply truth to life’s complex situations. Solomon, known for his wisdom, recognized it as a gift from God (1 Kings 3:7-9).

Developing wisdom involves saturating our minds with God’s Word, seeking counsel from those more mature in faith, learning from our experiences (and mistakes), and consistently applying what we learn to our daily decisions.

Strength in Commitment

In a world of shifting loyalties and broken promises, faithfulness stands out as a powerful testament to godly character. God himself is described as faithful (1 Corinthians 1:9), and we’re called to reflect this attribute. Faithfulness involves being reliable, keeping our commitments, and remaining steadfast in our relationships and responsibilities.

Cultivating faithfulness might mean staying committed to our marriage vows even in difficult seasons, being consistent in our parenting, or maintaining integrity in our work even when no one is watching. It’s about being a man whose word can be trusted.

The Ultimate Strength

Paul concludes his famous discourse on love by saying, “So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love” (1 Corinthians 13:13). Love, as defined in Scripture, isn’t a fleeting emotion but a committed choice to seek the highest good of others. It’s the ultimate expression of godly strength.

Cultivating love involves dying to our selfish desires, actively seeking to understand and meet the needs of others, forgiving those who hurt us, and consistently choosing to act in others’ best interests, even when it’s costly to us.

The Journey of Character Development

Developing godly character is a lifelong journey, not a destination we reach overnight. It’s grounded in being born again in Christ, and involves daily choices, consistent spiritual disciplines, accountability relationships, and a willingness to learn from our failures. As we submit to God’s work in our lives, he shapes us more and more into the image of Christ, the perfect embodiment of godly character.


Key Principle

True strength lies not in outward displays of power, but in the cultivation of godly character that reflects Christ and impacts others for his kingdom.


Reflection Questions

1.      Which aspect of godly character do you find most challenging to develop, and why?

2.      How has your understanding of strength been shaped by cultural influences versus biblical teaching?

3.      In what area of your life do you see the greatest need for growth in godly character?

4.      Who in your life exemplifies godly character, and what can you learn from their example?

5.      How might your relationships and influence change as you develop stronger godly character?


Action Steps

1.      Choose one godly character trait to focus on this month. Create a specific plan for how you will intentionally cultivate this trait in your daily life.

2.      Identify a trusted friend or mentor who exemplifies godly character. Ask if you can meet regularly to discuss and pray about your character development.

3.      Start a “character journal” where you reflect on your growth, challenges, and insights as you pursue godly character. Review it weekly to track your progress and adjust your efforts.


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Dale Tedder

Dale Tedder is a Global Methodist pastor in Jacksonville, Florida. If you would like to keep up with his online ministry or read other things Dale has written, you can check out his website, Walking Points. You can check out his author’s page for books he has written. Finally, Dale’s podcast, Walking Points, can be heard wherever you listen to podcasts.